Have any of you ever ran across gay people that did NOT fit the heteroual stereotype of being gay AT ALL?

Have you seen a gayperson that you absolutely could not believe was gay, like his being gay was like impossible and incomprehensible because he didn't act gay and looked like he was definitely straight (he must be and is straight)? It's like this gayperson seemed to be, and is, an average-looking, normal, regular, heteroual everyday kind of guy. I saw two guys like that speak at a conference about allowing s and gaypeople in the military. I still think those two guys aren't really gay. They didn't seem like the type. All gaypeople are (or, at least, catergorized) as effeminate, flamboyant queens who speak with a lisp and have limp wrists. No way in hell could those guys be gay. They can't be! They would have to be straight! They didn't look gay (heteroually gay, that is). They didn't act gay. They didn't talk or speak in a gay manner. UNBELIEVABLE! These guys were unbelievably very masculine, heteroually masculine. It blows the mind! They couldn't be gay.