New piercing won't heal - earring is too small?

A newly pierced ear will be sore. The earring pushing through you ear hole can cause infection. I got my ear pierced and it hurt for a very long time, but i change it the 1st week after it was done. It will hurt to push it back through, but your better off to change it. The whole will continue to bigger itself. It might bleed a little. If you got a gold earring, put that in it. But clean it first. since the piercing is further up on your ear it will take a while to heal. Use peroxide and saline solution. Sea salt is also good for it. clean it twice a day. No More, No Less. It should heal fine. Also make sure you turn it, even if it hurts. This helps it heal. Don't be alarmed if its red or anything because that is normal. As long as you don't have a knot on the back of your ear lob then your fine. Don't use peroxide often because that eats away tissue in your piercing. Just clean it well and try not to put pressure on it like sleeping on it. If you have a knot on the pack of your ear lob; then take a hot compress and hold it to your ear. Just chill and give it time and you will love it later.